Human Balance / Enlightenment After achieving balance a "Soul Mate" becomes a single "Flame" (Samadhi) who is eligible to mature further into a "Twin Flame" (Satguru) union.

Three steps for fulfillment/enlightenment;

Soul Mate = Unbalanced beginner,  Safer to remain Single, but may mature if already married

Single Flame = Balanced, Mature, No duality, eligible for marriage (Samadhi)

Twin Flames = Two balanced Equal Beings, a Woman and a Man who have become one (Satguru)

Oh, Yes! opposites attract (Soul Mates), but how long does the honeymoon last. Usually not very long and can they recover their honeymoon ( mature) before separating?  A one sided individual often seeks others whose opposite one side is strong for a relationship to strengthen their self. When neither is mature with their Higher selves in control, their Hearts and lower selves have a strong attraction for each other and they often end up dating each other and more eventually. They will have great initial respect for their opposite abilities and they will compliment and learn from each other. But if they attempt to work together politically, or in some material project they will usually fail greatly. Eventually after exchanging all their different experienced abilities with each other they will slowly become bored with each other, and the relationship disintegrates as they look for another with different experience. Sometimes if they have children they will attempt to stay together unhappily or separate leaving the children without balanced guidance. The cure is for both parents, one step at a time to slowly/surely strengthen both of their sides. And then discover their new selves eventually, enjoyably together!

First we must study and define balance in a human being. The personality/behavior traits are very different in the left and right sides of us when one side is weak. These sides should not be associated with male/female gender ! Both sides are Necessary and Good for balanced mature ability! Both men and women can and should maintain strong abilities on both sides if single or married!
 

      When two balanced people (both "single" Flames) carefully and truthfully in person discuss their prospective marriage their honeymoon can last forever. When a single person has both ”side” abilities they can solve many problems by their self well. In a relationship balanced partners (one Twin Flame) working together will eventually become one spiritual/physical being and have immense ability when working together or separately. They must also live together and sometimes work together. An excellent goal is to guide youngsters, well before puberty, to be balanced so they may carefully choose balanced friends.

The longer we are unbalanced/adolescent after pre-puberty the more open we are to degenerative diseases, like cancer, allergies, etc !    

A few examples of Major un-balance in a weak left sided individual!

Aggressive/Tough practical short term solutions only, anger/frustration held long term.

No insight/patience for good/slow long term solutions.

Even if they study others historical failures they believe they are better than human (Pompous/Arrogant) when they originate short term solutions with out any insight ! Lacking insight they have no wisdom into the future.

    A few examples of Major un-balance in a weak right sided individual!

Asks/Prays that others solve the problem, for they lack courage to be publicly known as a peace activist which will discredit their worldly monetary gain abilities.

They are afraid to give critical criticism or feedback to others needing help.  Sadly they are easily controlled by unfair people who do not respect free will in weak unbalanced individuals.

Balance = Fun / Maturity / Harmony /Consciousness of our long term actions.

When balanced we can first heal our self and then others safely. Without our personal pride interfering !

 A mature person, who may be very young or old (almost any physical age), has both their left and right sides turned on at full strength. Maintaining strong balance requires weekly or whenever necessary maintenance by us.

When balanced (with both sides strong) we can both listen and publicly speak well. We can easily notice if another person is unbalanced and not follow their unfair controlling guidance (with promises of money and security) and when necessary easily turn the other cheek ignoring them!

       There are two simple ways to check human balance;

   Scan a human being for balance. Using paper and pencil outline their body, front facing you. Label the left side image as their right side. Using the Silhouette Scan Method view the front outline with intent to measure the subjects balance. Good would be from gray to white on both sides. If one side is dark that is the weak side. Save the results if unbalanced to look for improvement.

   A self examination method to check our balance (left verses right side) is to notice our nipples on our chest. If we are in reasonable balance and strength on both sides our nipples will follow each other. Feel them with your fingers. Both should be firm or soft together, one should never be firmer or softer than the other! If one side is softer the majority of the time, this is your weaker side ! Looking down our own chest, our passive side is our left; our aggressive side is our right. 

If we are unbalanced the Treatment/Cure after taking the Full Course is to re-fresh the first and second rays together up to three times per day until balance scan results are reasonably close. Then re-fresh all seven rays a minimum of once per week !

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